Sensual massage Brighton
Sensual massage without seediness or nonsense, starting from just £100 for the “Outside”(external) massage service
Ethical, non-threatening sensual massage for all singles & couples in Brighton/South London. Light BDSM a naughty option😈.
Why have a sensual massage?🤷
- Most holistic therapy available
- Overcome problems with achieving orgasm(Inorgasmia)
- Overcome any body image issues by learning to be comfortable naked
- Escape your family’s strict religious sex censorship
- Overcome impotence and ejaculation probems
- Learn how to request for pleasure and state boundaries without embarrassment & guilt
- Learn to better please your partner alongside me
- Involve a third person, perhaps for the first time🧑🤝🧑🕺
- Discover that prostate massage is the most unexplored male pleasure centre
- Experience erotic touch from another man, with absolute discretion
- Realise the No 1. secret fantasy about massage going “all the way”
- *Try new sex toys such as glass dildos and cock rings with my selection(sterilised and condoms always used for internal). I have the ultimate vibrator: The Doxy Die Cast
- *Introduce elements of tantra such as ritual, synchronised breath and eye-gazing
- **Try BDSM and role-play I might be your doctor, teacher, neighbour, boss, step-brother, cousin. These are all common fantasises, believe it or not! You might request cuffs, a blindfold, to be spanked, ball-gagged, explicit language. Ask me to lie on, tell-off or tease. No request is shameful because real-life sexual taboos are safe in a controlled setting, with someone you trust. It is known to heal sexual trauma too. Sensory deprivation alone heightens arousal, for most.
*Must be a request on your booking form.
**Kinks upon request on the booking form; we can agree the details before you come. Must only be realisable within the context of massage and I only add the elements we agree. Use an agreed “safe word” to stop the scene and go back to regular massage.
My testimony from Cee Cee demonstrates the emotional connection she felt for me: We very quickly established trust, and she delighted as her naked body was revealed then trusted me to touch her anywhere, leading to relaxation and multiple orgasms. For the second time, she felt completely relaxed in a man’s hands and was in touch for more, even though I had not started SkinMap yet. I managed the situation sensitively and professionally, setting me apart from those who might have taken advantage of the situation. As I always do, I shared the situation with my partner.
Only pay for the intimacy service you are comfortable with:
- “Outside“: External massage and I wear shorts. You may touch me anywhere (except genitals)
- “Inside“: Internal massage too. Again I wear shorts and you may touch me
- “Interact“: Internal massage is included(P-spot, G-Spot etc), I am naked this time and you may touch me anywhere you desire
I will create the atmosphere you require to orgasm. I have no desire to take sexual gratification from the massage but I sometimes become aroused myself(of course!); it is not a reflection of how attractive I find you and erections are just one aspect of arousal. In fact, my honesty and ability to respect our boundaries to keep the space safe for both is key to the trusting atmosphere, and success.
A self-serious “tantra guru” or “adonis” therapist can stop you from forming an emotional connection with them because you are not seeing them as they really are and so you may not fully relax as they touch you. Female clients usually experience 2, 3 or more intense, full-body orgasms because they connect->trust->relax->desire. Your orgasms are mostly about you emotionally desiring my caring touch, not being aroused or me touching you. It starts the moment I greet you.
Instead, we can role-play the stereotypes I described, with prior agreement and it then becomes a fantasy scene where we are emotionally connected – see the difference? It can then be relaxed, light-hearted, naughty, passionate fun. With me, you feel free to giggle, swear, laugh, squeal, groan, writhe, moan and shake. It is your space to let go and unleash your sensual, raw, hedonistic self without shame or guilt. I am there to guide and hold the space for you to let go.
Some photos, if you need to see me:
It was a very pleasant meet with James. Very welcoming, nice room with a massage table and hot oil. Good chat before the massage what made me more relaxed. James worked hard but very gently and payed attention to my body reactions. I had a wonderful time and I can only recommend.
- Stefan, it was lovely to meet you and you were the perfect client because you gave me feedback about what was working with clear hand squeezes. I look forward to the next time. James.
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Thank you so much Chris, it was a pleasure and I focussed on bodywork as we had discussed your need for some deep tissue upper thigh treatment. With limited time in the session I have to carefully balance the different modalities. You are right though and, with agreement next time I can certainly focus more on arousing touch.
I had a couple come to me a few days afterwards and it was so hot that we have agreed to become threesome friends now. Enough said and I do hope you will bring your wife along for a couple’s experience – the energy of three in the room is just so horny. I promise to behave but if, yet again you are too hot to handle I’ll have to suggest friendship instead. I’m never going to make money but I am certainly going to live the lifestyle 👏 ☺️
Impressive website first led me to booking and the subsequent information and options given on arrival was refreshing to hear.Room was a fair size and tastefully furnished no issues with street noise.Hot oil was used which added to the experience and would say the glute work and thigh massage was excellent. I booked sensual and in places it was but i feel the more you go the more sensuality will come out.
James was great, open and forthright, no embarrassments, no surprises, he lives up to the SkinMap website (superb). Premises are small and cosy, don’t expect modern opulence, but the service is genuine and the results are as advertised, he’s good. I will be back, maybe take a training session.
- Thank you Paul, and I’m so glad you are thinking about coming back to learn how to massage a volunteer alongside me – you will learn so much. I deliberately don’t use an “opulent” setting because I find that people are more relaxed seeing that I am just like them and how I live – it makes it a more authentic, relaxed experience. Thank you for your kind words about my flat. See you again soon and don’t forget, if you become a volunteer for my learning clients, you will get a full refund of that massage and free 4 hands forever more! James.
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I have never come so hard or that many times. Seeing you a second time felt even more relaxed and you remembered that I liked just firm hands, without the feathers and things. That wee bit of pain when you did my leg muscles was good and the long, slow strokes were my favourite. It’s how I like sex but the big advantage with you is that you know what you are doing down there and even ask what feels best and for how long. Better than sex? 5/5 this time! Anita x
James put me at ease – calm, friendly and intuitive. Everything flowed very well, except at one point when he used the spikey wheel thing, but that is only because I have very sensitive skin. When I tried to touch his penis, he moved away. Really looking forward to a follow up massage in a few weeks – a New Year treat to myself!
I was fortunate enough to enjoy a sensual massage with James recently and would recommend to all. James was attentive, enthusiastic and skilled. He made a great effort to put us both at ease to ensure our experience was the best it could be and was able to take me into a zone of pleasure that lasted for around 2 hours.
With the massage tailored to my needs it leaves me wanting to visit again to explore further with James and I hope to see him again soon.
This was my first sensual massage with a qualified and experienced masseur. I was quite nervous initially, but James put me at ease through his very down to earth attitude and Karisma. James used a mixture of strokes and toys to enhance the experience. I knew I was sensual, but this experience has awoken desires and feelings that I didn’t even know I had! WoW! Thank you James!
- Reply from skinmap.co.uk 26 Jun 2020 Tom, Thank you so much. It is rare to feel as connected to a client as I did with you – it was a shared sensual journey and I was in the zone, as your giver for probably well over the usual 2 hours. For me, completing the arousal journey to an amazing climax for the client is the most important aspect of my job, and I was happy to oblige you. Enjoy the spikey wheel toy and ostrich feathers you have vowed to purchase! At your service always, James. https://skinmap.co.uk/booking
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My massage with James was an excellent experience. He was professional and put me at my ease when we discussed what I wanted from the massage. He checked in with me during and the massage itself was great and really hit the spot. He has great hands.
- Reply from skinmap.co.uk 9 Sep 2020 I am so glad you very clearly got the most from your massage. Your very relaxed attitude certainly appeared to ensure you had a seemingly endless finale. Certainly, it was the first time I have had to hand over to a client due to fatigue! I have started to refer to myself by your nickname, “Magic Hands”. I appreciate your raving to friends about my service – it will really help in developing a client base. Please do let them know I currenly offer a referral discount of 10%, given as a refund after booking when they mention you. https://SkinMap.co.uk/booking James.
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